Monday, March 14, 2011

Anda Tidak Boleh Memuaskan Hati Semua Pihak

Selamat pagi dan Salam 1Malaysia...

Wah sungguh politik sgt ucapan aluan Adie kali ni...hahahaha...sekali sekala apasalahnya kan...ingat korang je boleh 1Malaysia...Adie pun boleh....

Tajuk entri kali ni amboi aii panjangnya....adakah isinya sepanjang tajuknya...teruskan membaca ya...tetiba Adie nak tulis pasal ni...sbb Adie rasa Adie dah penat cuba memuaskan hati semua pihak...tak kisah la pihak itu adalah keluarga, kekawan, rakan niaga, mahupun pelanggan perniagaan Adie....walaupun telah melakukan yg terbaik, masih ada yg tidak berpuas hati...wat baik pun ada yg tak puas hati, wat jahat lagilah...baru nak berniat jer dah heboh 1 Malaysia....

Ermm Adie pasti kita semua tidak suka dengan penolakan atau bahasa omputihnya rejection..So jelas sekali kita tak suka rejection, so why we want to reject others? Ultimately, it comes down to one simple thing: you have to remember you can't please everyone.

Bila anda berbuat demikian,you’ll be more comfortable with being authentically you and remembering what you stand for. It’s easy to get caught up with what you think you “should” do or be. It’s easy to compare yourself to others and think what you are isn’t good enough.

Bila anda berada dalam situasi begitu, cuba baca beberapa kata2 di bawah yang mana Adie juga baca pabila mengalami rasa begitu

“I don’t wish to be everything to everyone, but I would like to be something to someone.” — Javan
“Believe nothing, no matter where you read it, or who said it, no matter if I have said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense.” –Hindu Prince Gautama Siddharta, the founder of Buddhism, 563-483 B.C.
“I am Me. In all the world, there is no one else exactly like me. Everything that comes out of me is authentically mine, because I alone chose it — I own everything about me: my body, my feelings, my mouth, my voice, all my actions, whether they be to others or myself.
“I own my fantasies, my dreams, my hopes, my fears. I own my triumphs and successes, all my failures and mistakes. Because I own all of me, I can become intimately acquainted with me. By so doing, I can love me and be friendly with all my parts.
“I know there are aspects about myself that puzzle me, and other aspects that I do not know — but as long as I am friendly and loving to myself, I can courageously and hopefully look for solutions to the puzzles and ways to find out more about me. However I look and sound, whatever I say and do, and whatever I think and feel at a given moment in time is authentically me.
“If later some parts of how I looked, sounded, thought, and felt turn out to be unfitting, I can discard that which is unfitting, keep the rest, and invent something new for that which I discarded. I can see, hear, feel, think, say, and do.

So what do you think? Are you a "pleaser"...Fikir2 kan

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